Admit it guys, Honesty is one of the hardest thing to practice on this planet. Literally there is nobody that didn't even lie in their entire life. Especially in marriage, honesty is a value that married must imply in their daily life. It is so important that if honesty is missing in a married couple, it could cause a divorce. Apparently, most of the marriages have been broken was due to the lack of honesty.
Sometimes what you and your spouse need in order to have a
passionate marriage is a good, healthy dose of truth. Nothing says distance and
dis-ease in a marriage like hidden truth, betrayal, and a lack of trust.
When it comes to marriage, secrets can cause real problems.
Whether a spouse knows or not, hidden truth that the spouse should know about
can spread through a marriage like a cancer. There are lies or secrets that a
spouse suspects may be existent and there are lies that are totally unknown,
but should be settled up.
If you're the one doing the hiding and you just don't know
how to come clean, first make sure you are right with God. Confess to Him what
you have done and turn your life of sin over to Him in turn for receiving new
life in Christ.
If you are at a place where you are torn inside and your
heart aches that you have been hiding important facts or activities from your
spouse, I suspect that you have already sought forgiveness from God, but that's
where you start. By seeking God and being honest before Him, and receiving His
grace, you can ask for Him to prepare your spouse's heart and mind for what you
are going to tell him or her.
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